I'm glad he contacted you Ali.. at least with that I can say that he's just been a jerk instead of saying he's a complete d*ck! Sorry to be so crass.. but I think ignoring or avoiding you when you have a financial obligation, never mind an amazing friendship with the person, is rude... But then again I guess he really only thinks of himself now. Which seems to be the way with all of the WA.
I hope that you will now let him do the leading.. and you stop initiating contact. I realize you have done that in the past but thought you two were through with the DB formalities.. but I think he's begun to take you for granted in a big bad way.. so you need to keep yourself busy doing anything your little heart desires. Like maybe ART? And leave your BF to worry about himself and maybe wonder what it is you're doing that's got you so occupied.
I know you're beyond playing "the game".. but I know that you are not ready to walk away and never look back. So don't look at it as a game.. look it as self preservation. You are likely less than 90 pounds with how little you eat due to the stress of all of this.. love yourself for a little while Ali.. you really, really need to.
