thank you for the very sweet post. I informed my wife yesterday about my upcoming schedule change, and all she had to say was that it was great I can start leading a normal life, but she already filed for primary custody of our son and that she didn't have money to pay the lawyer to draw up new ones. which is ok because I get to see my son every day anyway, and I could care less about how much I have to pay her for support. I love her and my son more than anything; can't put a price on that. my wife has her head so far up OM's @$$ that she just wants me to move on, find someone else, etc. I'm not about to sign divorce papers, essentially saying "i give up. some other guy can marry my wife" I didn't marry her for nothing. eventually when my schedule changes, we will draw up papers of joint custody and i will have to pay her less. until then, I have to talk to my pastor and my DB coach Chuck for some guidance. my wife is young, yes, and the pregnancy was NOT planned, you are correct. however we were already in love for a long time, just never got it together. she was happy with me; of course when her ex boyfriend (who she lost her virginity to) showed up again for a second chance, she bailed on me.
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
