Thanks Dawn. Good advice. I am just going to keep following it. I have to really get this right. I do know many of what my h's triggers are. He did mention the closet cleaning again today. So I will be working on that.

My h loves to boast about his business skills and I like hearing about it, so this is one area that my h talked about this evening. Telling me all about his past business jobs etc. He even said you didn't know that about me did you. I just said no I didn't h. I am so impressed.

Just trying to show support, love, encouragment, respect and admiration on a regular basis.

Now I just need to figure out how to get my h to move home! I am sure it's patience glam.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"