Good news PH. H called me at work today while he was watching the kids and said how about taking the kids out to dinner and I said sure. He said I got a job. Yeah Whooo! H has been unemployed for 7 months. This is a job he wanted and what a way to boost his confidence.
While we were out for dinner he mentioned how he might need to go to Florida for training possibly next week. Now in the past I have traveled with h on business trips so this would not be out of the ordinary, but I mentioned if I could join him. I was thinking he would have some excuse and he cheerfully said sure if you like. I about fell out of my seat.
Now whether I really will be able to with the kids is another story. I am not sure if I remember what to do sleeping in the same bed as h. We will see what happens with this one. I was just excited that h said sure.
We did have a great time at a pizza place with the kids. They played in a play structure while we had time to talk and laugh. My h had me laughing so much my sides and cheeks were aching. I did a lot of tilting my head to my side and shaking my head yes and validatin what he was saying.
Dawn I even got to throw out a few times h I am fully confident you...... Worked like a charm. My h did say oh yeah you have a few canned responses and laughed. I am sure he loved the idea that there was nothing for him to fight me about. I am trying really hard here.
While I was at work, he did help around the house and gave the kids baths before leaving and gave me a great big hug and kisses before he left. He also mentioned how he was now going to be able to help us financially. This was nice to hear.
Tomorrow he comes over again, so we will see how it goes. I will keep praying h and I continue to connect.
Thanks so much for the encouragement.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
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