Trixi trying to find moorage

[Trixi]

Thanks for the ideas Nik.
The Sunday thing being researched by me was because he came over Saturday night, we watched movies, talked about whether we should go jeeping on Sunday (original idea he had) and decided not to go because the weather wasn't supposed to be nice. SO, while he was in the shower, I looked online for a new 'thing' for us to do instead of 4x4ing and found this event that was a couple hours away that had the Kinks and Smashmouth at the day before (no one "special" on Sunday.) Anyway, when I said the "maybe next year" thing, I actually didn't intend it to be anything other than a passing comment. It looks like something fun to do. It wasn't meant as a test- but he probably took it that way.

Tonight was Spanish. Before he left, he said "I'm jamming Saturday,so we can do something Sunday if you want. And maybe Friday go see a movie or something." IOW, I did not ask about the weekend.
The following weekend he is doing a boys camping weekend and I am going to a glass gathering, so we won't see eachother that weekend, nor the Wednesday before.

I guess I just don't know how to play a middle ground without it looking fakey or punishing. I need a "how to be a bitch" coach. (And by 'bitch', I mean someone sassy that doesn't give a crap what some jerk thinks/does.)