i realize some people get back together right away, some it takes a year or more, some never get back together. my W is polite to me, but we don't spend any time together and I don't call her; I assume she's with other man. Now I know a rule of thumb is to make yourself the more attractive party, but when your W says its over, too late, she loves OM, what's a guy to do ? for the first month I begged for her to come back, since then I have let her go, not texting or anything. well, to be civil for the sake of our son, I will say good morning and such, but that's all. I don't know how to give the impression that she can't have her cake and eat it too (in regards to me and OM) yet at the same time be nice so our son's parents get along.
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
