Yes I have read the 5 love languages by Gary Chapman, as well as "hope for the separated" and "love must be tough" by James Dobson. So I'm familiar with their insights when it comes to some things. Allthough the beginning of this separation was terrible, and I did and said all the wrong things at the wrong time, I sincerely hope that it's not too late to let the "right" things work their magic. My wife has been so cold to me over the last few months that I don't even recognize her anymore.
Me: 31 W: 34 D: 7
Together: 13 yrs. Married: 7/19/97 :11 yrs
Bomb: 3/07 1st separation: 3/07 Back together: 4/07 Best 6 months of our life 4/07-2/08 2nd bomb: 3/08 separated again: 5/08 Moved back in against her wishes: 8/3/08
