Yes! Give her the packet no matter what. Good, good, good.

She is falling apart, h4h. She can't find stuff, her kids are getting frustrated with her, she misses the kids, she can't sleep cause she knows what she is doing is WRONG, her living situation sucks, she sees you and the kids all happy together WITHOUT her, you don't want the "crumbs" she throws to you anymore, ....she is THINKING BIG TIME. Good, good, good.

You are doing soooo well, h4h. Stay strong. You are fighting for your family and your marriage and you will NEVER regret this.

I'm going to pray for you right now.