I hope you are taking the evening off and doing something good for Neil. Now, a couple of random thoughts... * Forgiving H for being a DAM, not too hard, forgiving me for not standing up for myself, hard. Forgiving myself for the pain my kids have endured (and my peception that I should have been able to shield them) almost impossible. I really don't blame H for why we got here, although I can't take ALL the credit! lol * I don't think it was a baby #3 issue. Just a feeling I got as I read that post. I'll bet she freaked over the almost A. Is it possible guilt for what 'could have' happened? If W has trouble forgiving herself to begin with, imaging the he!! she's living in. * What are the positives in N's sitch? D#1 and D#2, duh. * How does N detach? You have the girls until Sunday? Pitch a tent in the back yard and go camping. More adventure? Pitch a tent in the next county and take the little darlings camping. Too much adventure? Easy day hike. Are you listening? GAL and be the best Neil you can be. And eat your vegetables. Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
