Well she responded and said I could take the car now. she was actualy very adult about it...untill she spilled the beans she's looking at a 08 honda civic. lol she couldnt take a 07 for 13k but wants a o8 for 18k.. a well. we actualy had a nice cinversation after. I asked about her dad and she said thank you. .... another day in the trenches.