That took courage.....no matter which way you shake it. Thanks for sharing it with us. It really helps us understand where you are coming from a lot better.
To me the big issue is pretty obvious, maybe not so much the issue (though I am sure that was a major catalyst) but possibly how it was handled.....
Did your W ever express interest in having another child? I can understand with being teachers why that would be difficult, but did she ever want one?
One of the major sticking pointsin my sitch was the desire to have a third child. I was against it for a long time...really caused my W some pain. Neither one of us handled the conflict well. We have both grown up quite a bit in the process.
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TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning