Sage, yes we are seeing the same thing (as you pointed out to me on my thread). I had also been thinking about a new thread that was Beginner's Mind oriented.
I love what you have done with listing out assumptions. I think thats a good tool and will use it as well as I really need to pull out all my assumptions/fears & what if's and really look at them under the light of day.
Another thing I was thinking about was two "theme" oriented threads. One would be for everyone to post nothing but things they LIKE about their H or W. Another would be to visualize what we want in our marraiges--as a way to set our own goals.
I think it would be good to have those type of threads to help us all remember to look at the positive things. I know I could use the help and seeing other people's posts about those topics would help me remember "oh, yeah...I like that about my H too" or "that's a good goal so and so has, I think I'll incorporate that into my goals too!"
What do you think? I'll start the Everybody's List of things they like about their spouses if someone else will start the other threads.
