One other quick thought - on Sunday when you found a cool event and he didn't want to go - instead of "maybe next year," what about responding "Oh that's too bad - well have fun jamming" then get a friend to go, or go by yourself?? That's the kind of 180 I'm talking about.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
