Well, it's been uneventful. W came over with the intention of making dinner for the girls. D17 is going out to dinner, D13 is expecting me to go get mexican for she and I.
W was 'happy and upbeat', said what she had to say then went into 'her room'.
She called me on the intercom and said she had enough money on her Sears card to get new tires on the Minivan because 'we really need them' and also that 'we might be able to get our water heater replaced also' (it's got a drip leak).
'we'. How funny. I guess she sees it as 'we own them jointly so we need to take care of them'. Of course, I pay for insurance, car payments, etc, etc, etc.
I'm ok now. The crisis is over and I accept that anything I say or do at this point will just bring more turmoil into my life that I am not ready to deal with.
Everything I do has to be for my greater good, and no good can come of any of this.