Hey where's No Hill? I thought this was his thread???
I'm dating a Shy Guy. His manners are impeccable. But he didn't take 3 dates to kiss me. He kissed me the first night - more than once. But did hold back on sex for a couple of months. When it happened - it was great. It was worth waiting for.
I think that many men treat women as ladies, not as meat. I have noticed that those who are good to their sisters and Moms are usually good to all women. I know my guy fits that category.
And Jilly - I HATE having to ask guys to help me. I am So independent. Had to do that today. Needed to get a new Granite Countertop with sink for the bathroom. Any idea how heavy those things are? And no guy rushed over to help. I had to have one paged. Figures!
I think it is good to interact with lots of guys in a non-sexual manner. It is really highly unlikely that they're hitting on you - they are just being friendly. There really are a lot of nice, friendly guys around. Of course if you've doused your body in pheremones, and a body that doesn't quit and you "flaunt it" - well, lots of guys WOULD give you the time of day. And more - LOL. I doubt any of us are really in that category.
As for the online movers and shakers - a bunch of morons. I used to run into it daily on the dating sites. Let's meet right now. Let's go straight to bed. yeah right. I deleted those guys immediately.
