(((Girlie))) doesn't it suck bananas that you finally move on, & now he seems to "get it". OMGosh !!! That killed me when it happened to us. All those years, I begged, pleaded, nothing. Then, I move on mentally & Boom ! He wants to work it out. I almost didn't. I had 4 kids. That sorta decided for me.
Now, what do you imagine you would want 10 years from now ? To be with this man ? IF he can jump through hoops & prove that he's worth keeping ? Or to have something else ?
Now on a joking note... best break up card I ever
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.