Wow. I did not need this right now but I guess God decided I am strong enough to deal with it so I will.
But what if He decided to give you that little revelation so you'd reconsider thanking her for all that she used to do because if you do that at this time, you might only reiterate in her warped mind the idea that she was all good and Frank really was all bad?
That was just a knee-jerk kinda thought but I would seriously hold the accolades for the time being. I do know the value to both of you that will come with stating those things...I have done it myself...I'm just saying now might not be the right time.
Also, with so much anger still left to deal with - which is not lost on her - it is difficult to imagine she would receive your words sincerely anyway.
