Your pretty much nailed the condition my wife finds herself in. I am not sure if it unnerves her when I don't react to her at all. I just let her talk and let off some steam.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023