I do understand what you're saying. Maybe the thought of Karma is what keep people with a conscience in line. So then a better way to phrase it is that I know if I had hurt people as our ex's had I wouldn't have been able to live with the guilt. I do know that some people are narcissists and sociopaths who aren't capable of feeling anything. So that's a very good point.
Don't think that your point of view isn't aprreciated because it certainly is! Besides, you must have a "braveheart" to risk coming up against a bunch of women.