I have Safari at home, and it does the same thing.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Thanks Lola, that's good to know. I have a phone interview today at 1530 MST about a job working 100% remote. If I get this job, I'm going to buy the biggest MacBook I can and then set up a circuit of coffee shops and cafes to use as temporary offices. I suspect I might meet some new people along the way and it would sure beat sitting in my dungeon getting a CRT tan.
Break a leg!!! (((Dan))) I think you will do fabulous!!
Okay what part of Colorado are you in?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I live about 10 miles due East of Boulder and I commute to the far South end of Denver every day. The cost is trivial, the time is priceless. Remote would be so helpful in giving me more time with the kids. So, I need to get to cramming :0
I know from my experience I used to push my h and he used to appease everything to make me happy. I even asked him once if I could go traveling on my own for 3 months. He looked sad and said yes but that wasn't what I wanted him to say, I wanted him to say no, I'd miss you too much you can't go. I asked him why he had said yes to that quite outrageous question and he said it was because he wanted me to be happy and couldn't say no to me - he took me at my word and didn't understand my woman-speak. I guess what I'm saying is that sometimes you need to say no, or set clear parameters for us women. It makes us feel loved. I'm not talking about major things just little firm steps.
Wow! What a great suggestion. This applies to me also, I'll post about it in my thread.
Hang in there Dan. Remember to stay away from "you promised to come back in 6 months" comments. Stay away from beating her up or punishing her, even though it feels good.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
I wanted to tell you the way I get past that one...because I have a problem running my mouth sometimes before I think. When I am alone, I pretend to have a conversation with H where I say all the ugly things I want to say.
And leave them floating in the wind...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Oh, heavens no. I would never say "you promised to come back in 6 months." In the conversation I did say that I bought the monitor for the family with the expectation that she would be moving home. Last night, I talked to her briefly and told her that if she wants to have someone else build the computer, that's fine and I understand why she would have trouble trusting me and that it was my fault. I think that actually was a helpful thing to say.
I just got off the phone with W. She left me a message that her SR22 insurance was never canceled and it automatically debited $150 from her account that she wasn't expecting. I told her that money is tight for both of us and I would help her out with that as I can. Since we are not LS, I pay most of her bills and still give her $400/mo to help with the fact that she doesn't make squat working at the YMCA. This is still a WAY better deal for me. The temporary MX is 40% of the higher salary - 50% of the lower salary which would be nearly $3K/mo while what I pay for her car and ins and med ins and cell phone and visa and cash is still far far less than that.
ANYWAY, I turned the conversation to how hard she works and that I was surprised that she was done at 2300 when the Y closes at 2200 and she talked about the program registrations etc. I complimented her on her work ethic and that she would get it done etc., and then concluded with ILT and she replied ILY2. It's been a while since I said that and for her as well. Maybe there is something to this DB stuff after all :p
Under the GAL category, if I can work out someone to watch the kids, I'm going to go to a rave on Saturday and I'm going to get peacocked up for it too. I'm not 17 and 140lbs, so I really don't think I could pull off the funky pants. I'm thinking a white wife-beater underneath this super hip striped shirt I have with a big Elvis collar and big French cuffs. Then, either cargo shorts with combat boots and white socks cuffed on top, or, linen khaki pants bloused into my combat boots. To complete the look, a white surfer choker/necklace and if I can find the right paint, I'm going to paint my hair and eyebrows. I'm not sure what color to go with. I was thinking silver as that would look cool under the lights, but, perhaps I should go with blue or green or pink or something completely ridiculous and with a little of the fluorescent body paint for fun.
Then, I need to get lots of pictures of myself and my friends having fun and make sure that my W gets a chance to enjoy them too without being too obvious about it.
OK, maybe not on the pictures. It really is something I've always wanted to do and now I'm going to do it.
ANYWAY, I turned the conversation to how hard she works and that I was surprised that she was done at 2300 when the Y closes at 2200 and she talked about the program registrations etc. I complimented her on her work ethic and that she would get it done etc., and then concluded with ILT and she replied ILY2. It's been a while since I said that and for her as well. Maybe there is something to this DB stuff after all :p
Wow, great job! I know I felt weird with the complements at first, almost like I'm encouraging what she's doing. But it works. Keep it up!
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
I love the nu rave look. Have lots of fun!!