Happy Birthday Treese! Have a wonderful day! You deserve it!!
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Treese - I know you had a good day! Way to go on the jackpot!! Don't know when you get back, but make sure you give us all the details...................
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
Thank you all for the Birthday wishes....I have to say it was an amazing birthday.....
Yep....went to the casino for 3 days and I hit the $1250 jackpot....I was soooooo excited....my mom, my sister, & I had such a wonderful time together...we laughed so hard at times I thought I was going to pee my pants.....I so needed the getaway...we plan on doing it every year....plus my mom is getting older and we need to spend as much time with her as possible.....
Got home yesterday....to cards from my kids...a HUGE one from my D16....I think it made H feel bad cause they did nothing for him....oh well....I think he and D16 exchanged some words...good ones while I was gone...nothing that is making her change her mind about him but at least she spoke....H was watching TV with son and I was getting ready to go out last night...not sitting in the house on my birthday....so I went upstairs to take a shower...didn't say much to H at all when I got home....H yelled up the steps....bye. and "Happy Birthday"...I just said bye.....
Then I went out with a friend, got home at 11 and I'm in a good mood right now....
All and all I've have 4 great days.....I go back to work next Wednesday...Blah...but will probably be good for me...keep my mind of things....
I'm really trying guys.....it's hard but I'm trying....as long as I don't see him I"m good.....LOL!!!
Thanks again everyone for all the birthday wishes......
((((hugs))))
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
After being so happy the past few days....my H felt it necessary to let me know he will be spending a few days with his Wh***.....I mean WTF......D21 is coming home for a few days....said he wont come see her until Saturday....because he has to spend it with OW.....OMG.....I thought I was getting better but apparently not......I hate Her.....I am crying so hard right now....I want to call and chew him out but he doesn't care....anyone who has to flaunt that in the LBS's face has issues.....
He acts all high and mighty and happy and how he has moved on with his life without me.....like it is what he has been dreaming about..I can't get it out of my head now....why ....why did he have to tell me that....I feel like throwing up now....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
A lot of times in the beginning of this mess, they will flaunt and/or say things to get your goat which is what he attempted to do.
Next time he says that, throw him way off guard and say, "Great. I hope you have a wonderful time."
He expects you to get defensive but try not to and do the opposite.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
SF....I know and he gets to me every time....I thought I was getting better at it but apparently not....
I should have just said have a good time but it hits you like a ton of bricks....he has just managed to really beat me down...
makes you want to throw in the towel.....throw the white flag...give them what they want....
sometimes there are days when I wish one of us wasn't here....it hurts so bad....the pain...even after a year it still gets to me.....when does it get better.....I am getting a life...I am doing what I thought was right but then it always comes back to this.....and makes me ill......litterally ill....
he just smiles all the time and is so excited and can't wait to go see his OW.....I wish I had that love again....
sorry....just feeling sorry for myself I guess.....some day I hope to be happy again....
just had to vent...
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
