Maybe this guy is just really nice. Knowing what you've been through perhaps he is waiting for you. He obviously likes you or he wouldn't have asked you out as much as he has expecially if it's not for sex.
Why is it that some people are so programed to think that either every man is out to get us or if they don't come on to us they have the problem? Personally I don't want to think like that. I think that that's a crappie way to go through life . Well, that and having nothing but old memories to pull from.