I wouldn't ask him a thing about his behavior, i.e., being tired. He's either not sleeping because of the depression or he's out running the streets at night or watching tv. I suspect it's the depression hitting him very, very hard.
Oh, no! Holey jeans? Talk about wanting to be a teenager again. Then again, I see a lot of adults getting them these days.
Just let him stew. At some point, you'll be able to mention the car, but I would go ahead and make your plans for having the repairs done, etc. I wish your son good luck on passing his driver's test. I know he'll do just fine.
Your plans for the rest of the summer sound delightful! You'll be able to get a lot done, especially if your h doesn't know your schedule!
Enjoy your mini vacations and thank you for the birthday wishes.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
