I don't want to have to pull the plug on this. I am mad because I bet if I do, it will still be "my fault" for not being "enough".
if you are worried about that... then you arent ready to wave goodbye to him yet.
You'll be ready, when it doesnt matter what he says in return. Bottom line, you'll kick his butt out of your life because he's a selfish jerk who's more interested in himself, than small details like commitment, and marital promises.
Do you expect a jerk to say, "wow... you know.. you're totally right... I completely deserve you kicking me out" ??
no.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle