Someone once told me the grass isn't greener...it's astroturf.
It looks good and perfect, but it isn't even real.
May is a long way off, and if she's complaining about him now...well, there's more to come that she hasn't even seen yet. And really, how serious is she about marrying the guy while she's having sex with you??
Not only that, but she's saying a lot of things that imply she's not over you. She complains about him to you, mentions that you are "stressing her out". Meaning....that she's thinking about you, and very likely missing you. She may not like it, but she's not over you.
You, however, are as cool as cucumber.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."