I found some yummy cheese!

[pisces9]

"The other advice would be to keep the past in the past. The old R is gone, stuff that happened in the old R is gone.....so no getting defensive or attacking one another. Actually talk about this ahead of time"

ok-so when do i say this? i did say we can have a new start with a new vows even..he smiled. he was touching my ring all weekend too- i didnt ask about his...i said ive been wearing it the whole time- he said i noticed.