Welcome to the group! You'll find a lot of helpful advice and hugs around here. I think the note was cute, and not at all "persuing". I don't think she'll see it as persuing either. I'm glad you ordered the books. I think Divorce Remedy is going to help you a lot. I didn't read the other one. Along with that, have you read the 5 Love Languages? It sounds like it when you refered to her "love tank". Anyways, that's a must read. You have to find what her love language is and speak it.
You're very new at this, so for now, just be calm, be up-beat, and give her space. I think you made a wise-choice to move back home.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
