I would make sure that next time you are very clear as to your expectations. As far as what happened, you can't change it so you have to decide what to say about it. Is he likely to get asngry or hostile? In my case, I have learned to let things slide that I cannot change or control, as long as they are not extreme violations of our agreement or causing actual harm. It is just not worth the stress and harassment I will face trying to deal with my unreasonable ex.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
