We text back and forth during the day now - "thinking of you", "ILY", etc. We never used to do that. I had always said that texting was an impersonal fad for adolescents. So it is a 180 for me in our R. And you know what? I really enjoy the brief connection, the little reminder that I'm on her mind, or the little lift I get when I see a nice message from her.
D14 is not too happy about the reconciliation, though. In part, I think upset that I won't be closer to NYC. But also because she never cared much for W or SD8 and is disappointed they will still be in our lives. My C agrees that XW has negatively affected D14's feelings in this regard, and thinks it will be a very difficult task to change in the near term.
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
