Do you think he started his way back because he started liking you again? I mean, do you think you triggered his attention again ?
H and I connect on so many levels...and we laugh and have fun and even flirt a bit...but it is known that he is with ow not with me. I mean...I think he feels free to be that way - BECAUSE he knows I know he's with ow.
Am I rambling ?
Cinders:
If I can chime in if you don't mind. It is not that they start liking you again, they always have. They bury it. Pity and self-esteem issues seem to be what triggered the A to an extent. But as my H said, he never stopped loving me, always had "the desire" but fought it very hard. Then again, he is still gone but still maintains he has never stopped loving me.
I was in a conversation with D16 today and many of her friends parents are divorced and remarried. I was asking her about the op the spouses ended up marrying. It seems that in the majority, the kids who live with the bio. mother, dislike their stepdad or they rarely talk to him. I was surprised. Many have nothing to do with their dad who lives elsewhere with a new wife even though they see him on weekends or whenever.
It was kind of strange.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
