My attorney is going to comb some databases for her and his names to see what's up. Obviously, there's nothing I can really do pro-actively, but info would be good. STBXH and I have couple's counseling soon and I really want this situation to be the main topic of conversation during our session. I'm really hoping that the counselor can plant a few seeds in STBXH's head that may actually take root one day. It can't come from me.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
