It's not an easy thing to quit porn. My wife complained to me about this on numerous occasions too and each time I would promise to stop and then secretly pick it back up again. Porn is a crutch for a married guy just like a drink is for an alcoholic. It's the easy way out when things aren't going so well in the bedroom. From the first time I was caught until I finally stopped was about 8 years. Used the stuff for about 19 years of married life. Porn-free now for 4 months and counting, sadly it is one day at a time.
As a single guy, I had the small pile of mags. When I got married I threw them all out thinking, "Never need to look at one of these again." Then after about 3 years of marriage I bought a mag here and there (coinciding with beginning of a SSM). The good thing about printed stuff is that it is much harder to hide so it limits the addictiveness of it. Video tape isn't all that small either. Then damn AlGore had to go and invent the internet. With a little computer savvy you could erase all traces of surfing for porn. You don't even have to pay for any of this stuff if you know where to look for the samples... even video clips are free. New stuff available daily... very easy to feed an addition this way.
This is at least part of the problem in your M. You may be right that it might take ST to get past this. It may not be easy, but it can be done.
With a little computer savvy you could erase all traces of surfing for porn. You don't even have to pay for any of this stuff if you know where to look for the samples... even video clips are free. New stuff available daily... very easy to feed an addition this way.
