Yes, I hear what Bagheera is saying, but I'm not sure *I* can tolerate the porn as a ST method. He has used porn for out entire marriage and I have NOT liked the result.
1)It is for me the OW in our R. 2)It hasn't made him want "real" sex any more now than it ever has. Once the screen goes dark. All erotic thoughts dissipate within pretty short order...no lingering effects.
I found Cinco's testimonial very enlightening. I think it will be detrimental to reintroduce porn here. Our lack of previous connection--emotional divorce--will not be remedied in this fashion, I'm afraid.
But, please, keep up the great feedback.
BTW Bagheera, it's COOL that you work in the astronomy field!!! I have a neighbor whose name I'm sure you would recognize. He is old now, but in the day was a pioneer in the field of telescopes and has built several large ones for the McDonald observatory.
