thanks TD.. ok- now i have tons of questions on how to BE with my H. how to not make him feel weak. how to talk but not over do it. what do men really need? i know ACCEPTANCE is #1.
im a little scared of him really accepting me. one thing i was able to say at the campfire was I need to feel accepted by you. he said you do? (calmly) i said yes- and our marriage needs acceptance too...i said im not sure how that looks yet...but it can be with actions or words.
it was the first time i have asked for what i truly needed.
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