No you came across fine. I too am sad that he is struggling but the fact that he can see that there is a wall between him and the world is huge. He will figure it out, they all will, we just need to let them do it and know there is a safe place for them to come back to.
Keep up the great work!! Good night (((Lost)))
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
“Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.”--Dr. Seuss
I made the mistake of reading this at work today and cried a few happy tears becasue it is so true. I would not trade all the pain for any moment of my life with her. I think you're the same way and that make us very strong. strong enough to face our own fears and pain while beeing respectful and understandign of theirs.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
“Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.”--Dr. Seuss
I made the mistake of reading this at work today and cried a few happy tears becasue it is so true. I would not trade all the pain for any moment of my life with her. I think you're the same way and that make us very strong. strong enough to face our own fears and pain while beeing respectful and understandign of theirs.
I am completely the same way. I wouldn't trade a MINUTE of it.
That's why life will be so good for you, no matter what happens--you're not living life half-hearted.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
It's funny that they the WAS's feel so powerless. They can see there is a wall and yet they chose to shut themselves away and not do anything to bring it down. You handled it marvelously though. I think that is the good thing about DBing that it makes you realise it is their wall to pull down and you cannot do it for them or force them to pull it down. It's good though that you h realises it is him and not you that is the problem, one step forward.
