Detach..... If you truly love someone, set her free, in every way, if she comes back to you, beautiful. If not, decide now, that you'll be okay.
If you read ndsmhelp most recent post, he treated her like a beautiful butterfly, & she kept flying over to land on his arm.
It was cool.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
