I experienced EXACTLY the same when I was around my H in the early days.
That is why I am not around him much now.
That is why he isn’t allowed in my home. That is why I don’t call him or text him. That is why we only communicate only through e-mail with a 30 word maximum.
He doesn’t get to eat my food and hang out in my home. He gets nothing.
The result is that he (and myself too) have not had to put on an act to show the other that we are doing fine / happy / angry etc.
The drama has gone.
Boring normality prevails.
He has the life he wants.
I do not support of criticise his choices. I let him be.
He has to focus on himself.
If he is happy then that our divorce is for the best and our son will benefit from a happy healthy dad. If he is unhappy then he needs the time and space to figure out why.
Now THERE is a strong woman.
Originally Posted By: KerryK
Me:48 W:37 S:7 D:6 M:9 OM:68 Bomb: 10/7/07 Status: W living with OM and D filed by me
Now THERE is a strong man.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
