Lodo, you're a great man with beautiful qualities. Your wife may feel "unworthy" of your love at this point due to all the damage she's caused. Sometimes love isn't enough. It should be, but it's not. I'm sorry you're going through this. I wish I could say or do something to make you feel better.

HUGS to you,
R

M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence