Hey Goldy - yeah, I was cracking up about that run on Wal-Mart's across America too!
I do have another quick topic to put up here on my blog....
THE DEAL WITH PULLING HER HAIR
OK I wanted to just give you guys the gist of why getting your hair pulled feels good to some women.
First off, it is not actually pulling it. What you do is get your hand right next to the scalp and then close your fingers. Try this on yourself first. You should feel firm pulling all across the scalp, not just bits of hair. Individuals hairs and small chunks of hair being pulled hurts. But a handful of hair from right next to the scalp does not hurt.
Once you have ahold of the hair like that, you should be able to turn her head back and forth easily, without pulling the hair away from her head. Again, try on yourself first.
So....as a woman, I will try to explain what happens when my man does this.
First thing that happens is my body gets tense. As an animal, we instinctively don't want our "fur" pulled at (as we would know in the wild that this means something is trying to capture or eat us). So we may startle or try to pull away at first. But then...something magical happens. As soon as you realize you cannot pull away, your body stays tense but then goes still. You become sort of mini-paralyzed. Your body knows not to try to get away or it will hurt more, so your body just kind of goes into a "wait until you are released, then run" mode. You are in a heightened state of physical awareness at this point, it is just inevitable.
While you are in this mini-paralyzed state, you become hyper-aware of the rest of your body and your other senses. I beleive this is because, again, the body is preparing itself for possibly being attacked. So you become very very aware of every breath you take, every move you make, and how your skin is being touched. You basically have no choice but to surrender. It is a way of forced relaxation, too. You are tense and hyper-aware, but you are mini-paralyzed....which causes a curious sexual sensation as well.
So...I just thought I would try to describe this feeling because I have mentioned grabbing some hair to a few of the guys and sometimes I think guys think I am meaning to pull hair from the roots, but that's not it at all.
I do realize that many of you would love to grab your woman's hair and she won't allow you to. How about....start by offering to brush her hair....get familiar with it and make it all about stroking her non-sexually at first. Then you can slowly work up to a little scalp rub and maybe eventually you can grab a handful....
Anyway, just my random sicko thoughts for the morning....
