Well, I hate to give dating advice to someone who's still married..but dude ease up some. No one wants to be smothered. One text message or one email a day should be enough. Let her breathe. Remember, she's just getting out of a relationship as well.
Pictures are innocent enough. Well, raunchy (one), but innocent.
Hey Sawks, listen to this one, LadyBug has it right. No one likes being smothered, and a younger person's life is still wide open with opportunity whereas as we make choices in life, they typically constrain our future options. So, right now, she has all the attention and options in the world and anyone seeking to reign that it will not be a positive.
I like how people have pointed out that the DB advice works here too. Don't pursue and GAL.
I just want to say that I'm sorry you ended up here, but, you will be better for having gone through the DB work. I work with a man who was married for 23 years and divorced for less than a year. I hope things work out well for him, but, that seems awfully hasty.
Dan
Thanks, I do appreciate all the advice. I may have gotten too quick too soon, so i decided after some rest, to slow it down considerably. I likely just want to be friends at this point anyways, new girl likes being around me, and vice versa that's cool. But nothing at this point should be more than that. Yes DB can be applied here as well. I'd like to get into my own space soon, if the market only didn't stink so bad. Haven't seen/heard from the W in several days, only spoke briefly after I got back from camping and very briefly after Tom petty show. Yes it is unfortunate i ended up here, but it's what you make of it.
Yes GAL is what i need to do, how attractive could it be to not do so? Likely not. I sent her a text regarding a job she was asking about, balls in her court.
