I know that you asked lola the question, but maybe i can help too.
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Lola picture yourself (sorry) having an affair. You tell your husband you love the other man. Do you really ? Is it really over even though you filed ?
I had an EA. I totally thought, in the moment that i was in love with him. I told him i loved him. When my H found out and i stopped talking to him, i quickly realized that i was in love with the idea of him. He was meeting my needs in a way my H had never done. I wanted out really bad, but i stayed.
Also, when you want out, every little thing is a "sign", so yes, she probably does see this as her second chance with him... they broke up before, that could easily happen again.
Don't put your happiness in that though. Do things that will make BC happy. Make changes to make BC a better man and she'll notice...
take care
ann
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
