I actually bought her a card (one of those with no writing in it). Needless to say i need some help on what to write or even if I should give it to her.
When I am in doubt I uses google for inspiration.
Also with the card a small gift, nothing too fancy but somthing that shows that you have made an effort. Also nothing too big where you'll get hurt feelings if she doesn't show apprieciation.
Then after that I think you need to get back and create "John210 man of mystery", cos to me it seems your W has become complacent now that the two of you are back in the R.
