You got that right.....I'm going to knock on wood first.....but Hope, is it me or do you and your H seem to have a somewhat normal M now
All my fingers and toes are crossed, while knocking wood and with cautious optimism I am going to say, yes, somewhat normal And in some ways, better than normal.
After you go thru cancer treatment they talk to you about your "new normal." I really dislike that term, but I guess there is a lot of truth in it.
My H and I have not had anything "normal" for a few years. His EA, my illness, his family business nightmare... It just feels good to finally feel the fog lifting and to see more of my H and less of the Alien.
Lots of little baby steps have brought us to this point.
I believe that I was lead to the DB book and this site. I give thanks every day for all of you and the tools that we have been taught.
No matter what happens, I know that I will be ok and will continue to work on being a better person.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
