Hi Julia: Wow we are in the same time frame, H and I split about two weeks before you and your H, so I can so understand your heading. I also can totally relate to being exhausted and tired by thinking about the sitch. I am in the same place.

I am not sure that we can consciouly stop thinking about the sitch, but I find that almost physically pushing it out of my head helps. My C told me to view it as if I were an outsider looking in, and most of the time that works.

(((Julia))) I hope you have good interaction this weekend! DB Girl DB!!!

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..