I am going to try and turn this Saturday into a prime DBing opportunity. This has been in the pipe-line for weeks so I have had enough time to plan some stuff lol! There has been progress recently in that we have had some good text interactions and he feels a lot safer in approaching me which is good. Hopefully that is something I can build on in person this weekend.
I have had a few DBing coach sessions and have found them really helpful particularly the last one which I think was at the end of my 'slow and steady wins the race thread'. I think I may try and schedule one for this week to improve my PMA. I'm working from home tomorrow so will have a chance then if I can get a slot.
Thanks for your post, I wil lthink about some of the questions you have asked me. May be a good starting point for fresh ideas.