Thanks for your post. I have been trying to look at the positive but am finding it hard. Realistically H only initiated the house because it was of benefit to him. I just feel like I spent all of that energy a few weeks ago focusing on the house because that was what he wanted to do and then he messed me around. I don't really want to do anything with the house as that means more of a split between us both - although I don't know how much worse it can get really. I suppose the only reason the house hasn't gone before is because he is staying somewhere for free.
I only asked him for drinks as we didn't manage to meet for coffee last week and thought that after work might be better for him as he is not so busy. I didn't say that in the text to him obviously but maybe he has taken it that I have hopes now.
Do you have any ideas for a reply back from me? I've just been for a swim and had lunch so am feeling better now. It just was not nice to wake up to first thing this morning! It is good that he is responding better and quicker these days!
