I know you are feeling down lets look at the positive
1) Your H has tried to initiate something with the house....the first time in a long time he has tried to initiate anything. You have been trying to get him to help you out there for quite some time. A good opportunity for DBing
2) You took a bold step in inviting him for drinks. I think it was worth the try (it is good to experiment). He didn't take the bite on that but he offered something else up. In the past he would have been silent for days if he ever responded at all
Put on your PMA hat for this weekend
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning