Oh--I also wanted to ask if you've ever talked to a DB coach. I didn't see from your thread whether you had or not. Even if this doesn't fix things, I find that having a conversation with a pro-marriage counselor always makes me feel a little bit better about myself.

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!