When I came home I just can't make myself look at her. It makes me so angry. I'm sure she senses it.
Like I said, it's hard to separate the detachment from the anger / hurt. I 'get' that she doesn't care any more. I have to get through the anger before I can finish with the healing.
I will.
I just don’t understand.
Why would you let someone in your home and life that made you feel angry and uncomfortable? How are you going to get through the anger if the way she is living her life annoys you?
Frank …
I experienced EXACTLY the same when I was around my H in the early days.
That is why I am not around him much now.
That is why he isn’t allowed in my home. That is why I don’t call him or text him. That is why we only communicate only through e-mail with a 30 word maximum.
He doesn’t get to eat my food and hang out in my home. He gets nothing.
The result is that he (and myself too) have not had to put on an act to show the other that we are doing fine / happy / angry etc.
The drama has gone.
Boring normality prevails.
He has the life he wants.
I do not support of criticise his choices. I let him be.
He has to focus on himself.
If he is happy then that our divorce is for the best and our son will benefit from a happy healthy dad. If he is unhappy then he needs the time and space to figure out why.
Nutty.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
