I really didn't see the good in her, or at least let her know that I saw it, appreciated the good things she did do.
It seems like I need to clear that up and tell her that regardless of the current situation, that I appreciate all the good things she has done that I failed to recognize. I think I owe her that.
Instead of going ‘backwards’ and acknowledging things she has done in the past; why not just focus on the here and now?
Thank her when she does something you like now.
Thank her when she acts in a respectful way to you, when she is considerate of your feelings.
Forget the past – it’s gone.
Nutty
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.