Originally Posted By: frank_D

I really didn't see the good in her, or at least let her know that I saw it, appreciated the good things she did do.

It seems like I need to clear that up and tell her that regardless of the current situation, that I appreciate all the good things she has done that I failed to recognize. I think I owe her that.



Instead of going ‘backwards’ and acknowledging things she has done in the past; why not just focus on the here and now?

Thank her when she does something you like now.

Thank her when she acts in a respectful way to you, when she is considerate of your feelings.

Forget the past – it’s gone.

Nutty


Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.